Spread Love !

Qn: Whats the secret of happiness ?

Ans: Loving without condition, talking without intention, giving without reason, caring without expectation - That’s the real secret of success and happiness; Dare to disagree ?

Sounds impractical, bookish, foolishly romantic and like a hallmark greeting card ? It does :) but it works.

Try following these for a month starting today

Overcome your short temper. People have this wrong notion of assuming short temper as “attitude”. This very quality is a source of most of the woes in a human life.

I sometimes wonder the connotation of the word “Attitude” which in the urban dictionary, is forced to mean arrogance and rudeness. Attitude is not about being rude and arrogant. It’s all about influencing others with your words, actions, gestures. Bring in that “attitude”.

If you are short tempered, there is something wrong with you, your attitude and your upbringing. Just understand that you are as normal as others and nobody deserves to bear the brunt of your ill behaviour, whatever mood you may be in, period !

Kill your conceit. For this, first of all understand the words ego, conceit, self indulgence, excessive self pride.

Understand that whatever you are is not because of what you think of yourself, but because of what World thinks about you. So stop thinking too high about yourself. Let the World do that for you.

Never get judgemental. Never ever try to judge anybody based on what you see / hear. Circumstances, situations, contexts differ from day to day and person to person. The way everybody reacts or responds is different. Accept everybody on their face value.

Censor negative suggestions. Well-wishers, friends, family, loved ones guide / suggest you throughout your life. Know what to accept and what not to. Never take negative suggestions too seriously.

If you are asked to avoid somebody, keep a tab on somebody, trouble somebody, play dirty politics, indulge in hatred – think twice. Notwithstanding the love or positive vibes you enjoy with the person, please take everything with a pinch of salt.

Learn to forgive. As many popular quotes say forgiving is the virtue of stronger breed. Revenge doesn’t help anybody. You might afflict the other party by hitting back, but that doesn’t heal your bruises. Forgive and shower love on everybody around.

Enough of Gyaan on what not to do. Something on what to do here:

Love: Parents, spouse, family, siblings, in-laws, cousins, friends, colleagues – These are the people who define you. Like them. Respect them. Love them. Its infectious !

Care: Show your loved ones that that you care for them. Help them, go to their rescue. Celebrate their happiness, feel their pain, lend a shoulder if they wanna cry. Make them feel comfortable and make them realize that you are always around the corner for them.

Express: Do you belong to the clan of people who don’t believing in expressing love? Do you feel expression is dramatic, melodramatic and filmy?

If you feel so, you are used to taking people around you for granted ! You assume that they understand your love and care. May be, they do. But are you not loosing anything gestures. Definitely not !

If you are not used to that, it’s never late. Try it once and see how better you feel ! Its addictive !

Be patient, stop complaining, halt scheming, avoid negative flow, go against the negative system. Be Human !

Try to observe a deeksha for 1 month or 15 days or atleast a week and see remarkable difference in your life ! Even if you don’t, you are not loosing anything either.

Contribute in making the world a better place to live. Spread Love !

PS: I know I can’t change the world by writing a few words here and I don’t expect the readers to follow all these immediately and change the World either. But if you read this looooong post and reached here, that means you gave a thought about this. Thanks for that.

And hope you have noted the change in the blog URL. Its not vibrant-serenity.blogspot anymore. Its being-chandu.blogpost.com

Love, Health and Power to all :)