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Saturday, January 3, 2026

How to not get 'provoked' by women wearing short clothes

I don't intend to chest-thump or virtue signal here but I've always been sensitive on the issue of eve teasing, moral policing and the entire concept of somebody passing sermons or judgements on how others should dress up. Small-time actor Shivaji's comments rattled me but the unprecedented support he had been receiving disgusted me, made me sick to my stomach and I've resorted to Instagram tirades to spew my repugnance. 

But I realized more than outrage, men need to be taught a very important lesson which has nothing to do with respecting women, consent or any other moral lecture. They instead need a short psychology lesson and here it is:

Women, on a macro level, are made to crave attention and validation. I know this statement might ruffle some feathers and there are some exceptions too. But the entire $650 billion global beauty industry including beauty products, nail salons, haircare, cosmetics etc thrive and survive because women love to look good and project themselves as beautiful or desirable in some way. That's psychology, anthropology, history and that will be future too, period !

Women show their desirability or beauty in many forms; it could be by projecting their clothes, tastes, affordability, lifestyle, talents, success or flaunting their body curves when they feel proud of their genetics, workouts or years of hard work and discipline. Men may feel attracted, repelled, provoked or consumed but they flaunt themselves only for the following reasons:

  1. Women want to look beautiful when they see themselves in the mirror.
  2. Women want to impress other women who they are inspired from or jealous of. 
  3. Women want to show themselves off to men they like or they want to impress.
In this grand scheme of things, they don't even care or acknowledge the existence of creeps or self-proclaimed guardians of society or perverts who can't contain their hormones even in the civilized lawful world.

Imagine a world where girls aren't motivated to look good, flaunt their beauty and are made only to perform their duties, chase either material success, raise families or attain sub-conscious nirvana ! The world would not only be so insipid and bland but also men would lose the basic motivation to build, provide, earn and impress the women they are attracted to.

The world is a battlefield and if you are a man who are immensely attracted to or 'provoked' by some girl for her clothes, behavior or personality, the first and only thing you should worry about is to becoming worthy of her attention, acknowledgement through your own success story. You should be worthy enough to attract her senses by your abilities, earnings, personality, charm to make her feel comfortable and attracted to you.

If you are not made for that grit, and you are a short term dopamine addict who basks in your own comfort zone, you have a solution too: You can continue getting provoked, desire her in your dreams, go jerk off in your bathroom and repeat. You have a whole world of pornography to calm your organ and hormones down. 

Meanwhile the girls will find real men worth their attention and you will be left jerking off, fuming, shaming them, basking in the self-pity syndrome, delivering moral policing discourse for the remainder of your life. Choice is yours.