Anger, frustration, disappointment, hatred - very strong and disturbing negative emotions which eat away one's mind and heart. Everybody has a choice of venting out these emotions: blurting out or forgiving.
Blurting out never repairs things and might occasionally backfire and will only prove that you value others' convictions and thoughts. Forgiving is possible only for people like Mahatma Gandhi or super-matured humans. This article is for those who want a third way out.
The way is to stop respecting or acknowledging the very existence of the source of these negativity. Be it people, things or situations. One goes through trauma only till he/she reacts to circumstances and values them.
Just understand that our life is way too important for us and we make a circle of loved ones only to make our life more beautiful. Once we start loosing our peace of mind, dignity due to anybody (including those supposedly loved ones), obviously they should cease to be loved ones and should be like any of those billions of people in the world who just "exist" for us.
Nobody is perfect and hence everybody has people who love or hate them. Just realize who love you and take them into your fold and everybody else would end up being some "living organisms" and nothing more than that.
If you feel bad as somebody doesn't think good about you, doesn't care for you, takes your love for granted - its only because you still feel they deserve your reaction to their acts. And realize that the person who backbites you is in the most convenient position to KISS YOUR A**
1 comment:
Just close your eyes and say DISAPPEAR and remove from thoughts and mind forever... it is really tough but it does help tremendously.
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